by Sheikha Ibtisam Mahameed and Rabba Tamar Elad-Appelbaum

This invocation, written by two mothers, one Muslim and one Jewish, invites us to take their plea for peace into our hearts and into the world. It has been shared widely by Rabbi Amichai Lau-Lavie and the Lab/Shul community.

Let us Light Candles for Peace

Two mothers, one plea:

Now, more than ever, during these days of so much crying,on the day that is sacred to both our religions, Friday, Sabbath Eve

Let us light a candle in every home – for peace:

A candle to illuminate our future, face to face,

A candle across borders, beyond fear.

From our family homes and houses of worship

Let us light each other up,

Let these candles be a lighthouse to our spirit

Until we all arrive at the sanctuary of peace.

Blessed Yah, Creator, Created, Creating...

We pray for peace,

For ourselves and the world,

Even if only for one day:

Instead of anger, we choose kindness.

Instead of revenge, we choose justice.

Instead of resentment, we choose empathy.

Instead of work, we choose rest.

Instead of ideology, we choose compromise.

Instead of destruction, we choose community.

Instead of fear, we choose endurance.

Instead of invective, we choose prayer.

Instead of violence, we choose peace.

Blessed Yah, Creator, Created, Creating...

We give thanks for this day of peace.

May it change us, may it change the world,

And let us say, Amen.

Lighting candles transforms ordinary time into sacred time, marking the official start of the Seder.

The Blessing:

בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה יְהוָה אֱלֹהֵינוּ מֶלֶךְ הָעוֹלָם, אֲשֶׁר קִדְּשָׁנוּ בְּמִצְוֹתָיו, וְצִוָּנוּ לְהַדְלִיק נֵר שֶׁל יוֹם טוֹב.

Baruch Atah Adonai Eloheinu melech ha'olam asher kid'shanu b'mitzvotav, v'tzivanu l'hadlik ner shel Yom Tov.

Blessed are You, Adonai our Divine Presence, Ruler of the Universe, who has sanctified us with laws and commanded us to light the festival lights.

As we light the festival candles, we acknowledge that as they brighten our Passover table, good thoughts, good words, and good deeds brighten our days.

This activity can be done alone or as part of a group. 

First, find a quiet spot. Maybe it’s at home, on a favorite couch, or maybe it’s sitting in a circle with like-minded people, feeling connected to their power and strength. Get comfortable in that quiet spot, and let your mind start to drift to all of the ways in which our world needs healing. What does that healing look like for individuals? For communities? For wildlife? For our planet? 

When you’re ready, bring your mind back, and recite this meditation out loud. Repeat this meditation as many times as you’d like: 

May we hear and recognize our own calling, 

We are the ones with the capacity to heal, 

To nurture, and to repair the harm we have caused, 

And the harm of those who came before us. 

May we strive to practice tikkun olam,

May we repair the world through collective action

So that we can not only survive this changing world,

But thrive here. 

May we be courageous in the face of apathy, 

In the presence of our own fear and indecision, 

May we move together even through grief,

Remembering that there’s still time to act,

There’s still time to remember the world

Back into being.

Before starting this activity, take a few minutes to read through and sit with this prayer by Trisha Arlin. Read it as many times as you’d like and take notice of what comes up for you. What resonates? 

Instead Of: A Prayer for Peace by Trisha Arlin

Blessed Yah, Creator, Created, Creating...

We pray for peace,

For ourselves and the world,

Even if only for one day:

Instead of anger, we choose kindness.

Instead of revenge, we choose justice.

Instead of resentment, we choose empathy.

Instead of work, we choose rest.

Instead of ideology, we choose compromise.

Instead of destruction, we choose community.

Instead of fear, we choose endurance.

Instead of invective, we choose prayer.

Instead of violence, we choose peace.

Blessed Yah, Creator, Created, Creating...

We give thanks for this day of peace.

May it change us, may it change the world,

And let us say, Amen.

Now grab a pen, and work through these prompts.

1. Which of these negative feelings can you relate to? Which do you find your mind naturally draws from? Highlight those that stand out. 
2. Which of these positive feelings come as a struggle to you? Place a circle around the ones that you’d like to work on fostering more. 
3. What else would you add to this list? What other feelings or thoughts do you find within yourself that you’d like to reframe or replace? 

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I choose ____________________________.

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I choose ____________________________.

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I choose ____________________________.

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I choose ____________________________.