Before starting this activity, take a few minutes to read through and sit with this prayer by Trisha Arlin. Read it as many times as you’d like and take notice of what comes up for you. What resonates? 

Instead Of: A Prayer for Peace by Trisha Arlin

Blessed Yah, Creator, Created, Creating...

We pray for peace,

For ourselves and the world,

Even if only for one day:

Instead of anger, we choose kindness.

Instead of revenge, we choose justice.

Instead of resentment, we choose empathy.

Instead of work, we choose rest.

Instead of ideology, we choose compromise.

Instead of destruction, we choose community.

Instead of fear, we choose endurance.

Instead of invective, we choose prayer.

Instead of violence, we choose peace.

Blessed Yah, Creator, Created, Creating...

We give thanks for this day of peace.

May it change us, may it change the world,

And let us say, Amen.

Now grab a pen, and work through these prompts.

1. Which of these negative feelings can you relate to? Which do you find your mind naturally draws from? Highlight those that stand out. 
2. Which of these positive feelings come as a struggle to you? Place a circle around the ones that you’d like to work on fostering more. 
3. What else would you add to this list? What other feelings or thoughts do you find within yourself that you’d like to reframe or replace? 

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